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I love pearls. I have a jewelry box devoted entirely to pearls. The bottom is lined with thick, black velvet boxes that contain the really good sets – the ones handed down from my grandmother, or the ones given to me by a lover. Those I reserve for special occasions. But on top of that is a tangled mass of strands, all different colors, white, black, pale pink, silver, gold, all waiting to be taken out and played with because yes – these are my “play” pearls. I don’t know what it is about a strand of pearls hanging low between my breasts, but whatever it is, I definitely like the reaction I get when I put them on. And I don’t know a woman who doesn’t feel just a little bit more feminine and sexy with pearls sliding over her skin.

I saw an article recently about pleasuring your lover with pearls and because I’m a pearl girl, I had to check it out. There were some fantastic ideas listed, including tying your lover up with pearls (of course, it has to be more “pretend” than “real” bondage, unless you both want to end up tripping on pearlescent beads like a couple of Warner Brothers cartoons!) She even talked about penetrating a woman with pearls, which was a rather sexy thought, but then the article ended and I thought, “Hey! Wait a minute! You forgot something!” Or more to the point – someone. This bi-girl had focused on the female, but the masculine had been completely overlooked!

And you know me… we just can’t have that!

What happened to the combination of pearls and cock? Because that, folks, is a marriage made in pleasure heaven!
In order to really give you the real how-to about cock and pearls, I thought I’d better do a little bit more research and practice, just to be sure I had the techniques down so I could relay them to all of you.
1. Use edible, flavored lube – but definitely DO use it, and a lot of it!

2. Use very, very long strands of pearls (the kind that go down to the navel) if you want to keep wearing them during the session.

3. Don’t use expensive pearls – but make sure they are well made, and preferably individually attached to the strand (so if they break, they don’t all come off at once!)

4. Don’t squeeze too hard, and make sure you aren’t pinching any skin with the pearls.

5. Wrap the pearls in firm circles – this is sort of a Goldilocks comment, but not to tight and not too loose. Too tight and they won’t move. Too loose and there’s not enough friction. You’ll just have to experiment to get it “just right,” Goldiegirl!

6. If you want it to be a pearl blowjob, and not just foreplay or a handjob, use the pearls to tease the head at the beginning, but as he gets closer to the finish line, push the pearls lower, use your hand to move them up and down (again, tension is important here!) and your mouth over the head.(This is where edible lube is important!)

7. When he’s ready to come, it’s really hot to watch it slide down his shaft all over the pearls… but if he likes you to swallow and you don’t mind, that’s okay too!

That’s it! Now you, too, can have some pearlicious fun!